Asking For A Friend

E249: How can I win the battle against bitterness?

In this episode, Jason and Duffey get practical as they discuss the unfortunate situation when relationships go sour, and conflict arises. All too often emotions and passions win the day and anger or bitterness results. How should we think better about our tendencies toward anger and bitterness? This episode seeks to offer encouraging and practical counsel for these types of situations.

 

Resources mentioned on the episode:

• https://heritagebooks.org/products/bitterness-the-root-that-pollutes-priolo.html?srsltid=AfmBOopvJ7i0ekZyuq7Btv4XnlFtJQbTmfL5FQJXYuG5B7QBNt2OIjWS 
• https://newgrowthpress.com/minibooks/personal-growth-and-development-books/freedom-from-resentment-stopping-hurts-from-turning-bitter/?setCurrencyId=1&sku=9781935273660&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign={BCI_PMAX_Main}&utm_term=&utm_content={adgroup}_c&utm_name=&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=19827238486&gbraid=0AAAAADQ2Ly_FjN2y5OQgXF4K8FbdupZn2&gclid=CjwKCAjw1tLOBhAMEiwAiPkRHqkwjpWpdsr9muWn-HcP6Pk2xaruNfOoVA55GC4iIQOYLJf8_nkXLBoCHDoQAvD_BwE 

Additional Puritan resource:

• https://heritagebooks.org/products/the-cure-for-unjust-anger-downame.html?gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=21619799276&gbraid=0AAAAAClRuhsqCohR1UuDV-TNqkH-ZT_bS&gclid=CjwKCAjw1tLOBhAMEiwAiPkRHtMnaV5mES_qtpBMwIS9rsLfSiyVoMAL-fjNmROTF6rPLGypLInrJxoCFMoQAvD_BwE 

E248: Book Club #8, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chap 7)

Jason and Duffey discuss a book on the pastoral life and theology of the nineteenth-century English Baptist pastor, Charles Haddon Spurgeon. This mini-series will be an on-going series in "book club" style. They will read a chapter and discuss it on an episode each month.

This episode covers Chapter 7 (pp. 173-193).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here: 

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor 

E247: Spring Puritan Conference

In this episode, Jason and Duffey discuss BBC's upcoming spring Puritan Conference on April 18, 2026. Listen to this episode for a sneak-peak at what to expect from our guest, Dr. Stephen Yuille.

 

Register for the conference here: https://www.bbcemory.org/ 

Biographical information about Dr Yuille: https://swbts.edu/staff/j-stephen-yuille/ ; https://thecbcd.org/dr-stephen-yuille 

E246: The Ordinary Means of Grace with J. Ryan Davidson

In this episode, Duffey has a conversation with Dr. J. Ryan Davidson (Associate Professor of Pastoral Theology, I.R.B.S.) about his book entitled 'Green Pastures.' His book his a primer on the ordinary means of grace. The purpose of this episode is to provide an introduction to the subject for those who may unfamiliar. The main topics covered are preaching, the Lord's Supper, baptism, and prayer.

For the video version of this conversation, see this YouTube link: https://youtu.be/ma8QydMTthY 

You may purchase Ryan's book here: https://brokenwharfe.com/product/green-pastures-the-ordinary-means-of-grace/ 

E245: Systematic Theology, Mankind and Sin

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Jason to discuss questions on "Mankind and Sin" like:

• Did God create mankind in a perfect state?
• Did mankind stay in that perfect state?
• Did mankind fall from that state?
• What is sin?
• What is the seriousness of sin? 
• What is the state of mankind after the fall?
• What is original sin? 
• What is actual sin?

E243: Book Club #7, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chap 6)

Jason and Duffey discuss a book on the pastoral life and theology of the nineteenth-century English Baptist pastor, Charles Haddon Spurgeon. This mini-series will be an on-going series in "book club" style. They will read a chapter and discuss it on an episode each month.

This episode covers Chapter 6 (pp. 145-171).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here: 

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor 

E242: Cancer Is Not Your Shepherd with Mike Abendroth

In this episode, Jason and Duffey are joined by a returning guest to the podcast, Mike Abendroth. This conversation centers around one of his books, Cancer Is Not Your Shepherd. His book is a 31-day devotional with the aim of encouraging and comforting those going through a cancer diagnosis. Mike is a two-time cancer survior, and he now sees one of his ministries as ministering to cancer patients and those suffering with severe illnesses. This conversation is certain to bring comfort and encouragement in Christ.

• How should Christians deal with severe illness?
• How should Christians deal with suffering in general?
• How are Christins to think biblically about cancer and its challenging physical toll? 
• How are Christians to think about hospitals, medication, and pain relief? 
• How does the gospel affect a cancer diagnosis?

For the video version of this conversation, see this YouTube link https://youtu.be/GDKfPvY9YrE 

You may purchase Mike's book here https://www.amazon.com/Cancer-not-your-shepherd-Suffering/dp/B0CZJ9RYJ8.

E241: Systematic Theology, Creation

This episode continues a mini series in systematic theology. For this episode, Duffey is joined by Jason to discuss questions on "Creation" like:

• What is the relationship between God and creation?
• What is the creator/creature distinction? 
• Did God freely create the world?
• Is creation eternal?
• What about the spiritual realm?
• What about angels?

E239: Book Club #6, Spurgeon the Pastor (Chpt 5)

Jason and Duffey discuss a book on the pastoral life and theology of the nineteenth-century English Baptist pastor, Charles Haddon Spurgeon. This mini-series will be an on-going series in "book club" style. They will read a chapter and discuss it on an episode each month.

This episode covers Chapter 5 (pp. 123-144).

If you'd like to read along, you may purchase a copy here: 

Geoff Chang, Spurgeon The Pastor 

E238: Christmas Hymns

In this epsiode, Duffey and Jason discuss two popular Christmas hymns: Joy to the World and Silent Night. They briefly discuss the stories behind each of the songs and then offer comments for further reflection. We hope this epsiode encourages you to give thoughtful consideration of the hymns we sing each Christmas season! Merry Christmas to you!